When, at celebration, once I had been 15 or 16 years of age, a woman I’d been talking to for just two moments asked me if I experienced a gf.
“No, ” we replied. “I’m homosexual. ”
“Oh my god! ” She stated, unexpectedly pleased. “Will you be my homosexual closest friend? ”
It was maybe maybe not the very first time we was in fact extended this kind of invite. Before i really could answer, she asked if I’d go shopping along with her. We grimaced and rolled my eyes, an answer she deemed rude. She hadn’t supposed to offend me personally. But she additionally most likely had no concept just just how insulting it had been to try and deputize me personally as her brand new sidekick moments after fulfilling me personally, due to the fact I became homosexual.
There appears to be this notion, underlined by shows like Will & Grace as well as other very very very early aughts news, that right women can be natural allies to men that are gay. Continue reading Having gay intercourse together with your closest friend